Mom, we don't watch TV at dinner

We have tried to make our mealtimes family-time. Even when it is just Sage and me and even if we are only eating PBJ - we always sit at the table. We turn off TV and try not to answer phones. (Although I have one friend who must have radar and calls me just about every time I am about to sit down!) But we really are pretty consistent and successful with achieving this goal.

We use the time to talk and bond. We make up stories, play word games, tell jokes and eat our food. Usually we are able to tune out the world and be together. When daddy is home we use the time to catch him up on our week, Sage's activities and school as well as fun family talk time.

Last week, I was watching a show on TV while I cooked and Sage played. I was really interested in what was happening and, after running to umpteen different activities and errands all week I was tired and feeling tapped out. And, for one time, I just wanted to eat quietly and finish my show (even though I had it on DVR and could watch it later). As we sat down Sage said, in her best mommy voice, "Mommy, we don't watch TV at dinner!" With that she left the table turned off TV and said "You can watch it later."

I could barely contain my laughter as I humbly accepted her redirection and admonishment. I think even though we try hard to be consistent and fair, I saw that I can still fall into a thought process that I am the mommy so the rules don't apply to me. My little girl showed me that she listens to us and our "rules" and she also showed me her strength in standing up for what she thinks is right; but she also reminded me that I have a responsibility to abide by my own rules in order to lead by example.

Way to go Sage!

I don't think I'll make that mistake again...

Humbly,

Emily A. Filmore, Author
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